My 32 year old daughter is living with my husband and I now that she is out of rehab. I wanted to know what to do. She was addicted to prescription drugs. It ruined her first marriage and caused her to lose custody of her girls. All she does is talk on the phone, eat or get on the computer. She doesn't contribute any help like helping around the house or cleaning her room. I feel like I have a teenager at home again. Is their a list of guidelines or rules as to how much help we give her without being an enabler? We also buy her cigarettes at 160.00 a month and her meds for blood pressure and other is 170.00 a month. We are seniors and it's hard sometime. Please if anyone has any advise I would deeply appreciate it.