it pains me to even type the words. I am the oldest of three children. My youngest brother told me that my middle brother molested him while they were children. he 5 my other brother 10. he has only remember this as of about 9 months ago. and clearly remembers it now and sure it was not a dream as he once thought. some instances apparently also involve a cousin that was also 5 at the time. we are all adults now. this is tearing him up as we have a very close family. I am the only one that knows of this. I have said he should see a counsler, and tell him wife as soon as he has the courage.
i have asked if he as ever brought this up with my cousin to maybe confirm, but he says no, nothing has ever been said about it to anyone.
I have promised not to say anything of this as said he will sort this out himself.
Other than support him I am at a total loss as to what I can do!
can anyone advise?
this has completely thrown my reality into a tailspin.