My boyfriend and i have been together now for almost two years and i know he does his best not to do anything that will remind me of my grandpa but sometimes he does things and i think about it. Or we'll be watching tv and something on it will remind me and idk how to tell him i dont wanna watch it anymore. I would love to find a way to be able to be around him and not have to worry if he's going to do something to remind me of my grandfather and how he used to molest me. I feel bad when he reminds me of him because i know hes not him and would never do that but i feel guilty when he reminds me of my grandfather and i can't help it. Any thought would be great.