I am in need of support from an outsider who can help me get through this rough time. My husband has agreed to getting help, only problem is it is always a few days away. Meanwhile takes the car and stays out all night, then sleeps all day. I am having a hard time being loving and sweet. His x-wife tried the tough love and kicked him out. His children wouldn't speak to him (one of the boys for 2 years) and now the 3 children have all moved in with us to try to help him. He is a wonderful man and we need some direction from someone who has been there. We are willing to try anything except splitting up the family, with the excption of him going to rehab. We need to know how to act and what stories to believe and how to tell the difference. Thank you for listening