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1 Oct 2006
I really dont know where to begin. My wife and I lead a very unhealthy marriage. We have been together since 2000 and we got married in 2004 afterwhich I got accepted into a off-shore medical school. It worked out that she has stayed in the states since then and I am now completing my final semester in the islands. We have seen each other during the breaks and at odd times during the semesters.

I dont think we had the most stable relationship to begin with (petty arguements, different values, different interests), but we have had many good times together and we do care for each other very much. However, it seems that this situation that I have put us in has made things turn for the worse. She has openly said that she resents me for doing this (going away) and has lost interest in me sexually and romantically. She has gone on to say that she thinks of me as more like a brother than a husband, she does not have a sense of security from me that she has had with other men in her life, and that she feels like she does not know me whenever we see each other.

I dont know what to do. After this semester I will be back in the states and that might solve the problems (hope, hope), but I get a sneaking feeling that it wont be that easy because my schooling will continue (in the states) and we will not have much time to be with each other with her working and me studying and going to the hospital. To top it of she has real problems being alone so much so that she had her 80-something year old grandmother living with her while Im gone. Im predicting that she will be alone alot in the comming future. Im really afraid for us and I feel that I cant keep the ship floating by simply being optimistic.

I believe that many of the problems that we have had stem from her insecurity and me being too laid back and care free. It seems that the current situation I have entered has only amplified these traits, and I dont feel that the future will alleviate the problem by itself. Please help!
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