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	<title>Mental Illness Help</title>
	<description>Hottest tips and advice on Managing Mental Health issues.</description>
	<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 18:35:55 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>I Do Not Like White People Help Me!</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1596</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hey ,  im a young man who comes from middle east. My fathers brothers both married caucasians and i do not like them. The women are gold-diggers and have poor education. One of them "claims" to be a lawyer , the other is a show-off. They treat me like dirt. I am tired of living around white women who were once maids and now have millions. I despise white people.<br /><br />How can you help me.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 15:37:40 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1596</guid>
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		<title>Natural Treatments ?</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1633</link>
		<description>any natural treatments for panic attacks.</description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:39:55 -0800</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1633</guid>
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		<title>Why Offer Pedophiles Therapy?</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=107</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Admittedly, with this subject, no matter what I write there will be criticism, but it's worth it if others will take a step back from the emotions and consider true solutions to the problem of pedophilia.  Fear and anger are normal responses to child molestation but they can't form the basis of any real solution.  Instead, we need to understand the problem, craft prevention strategies, determine effective punishment and establish treatments for both the victims and the pedophiles.  Since prevention, victim treatment and pedophile convict treatment/punishment are exhaustively covered elsewhere, we're going to focus, here, on therapy for pedophiles (and potential pedophiles) as part of the crime prevention strategy.  Here are some top selling books on therapy for pedophiles and other sexual abusers.   <br /><br />Punishment For Sexual Offenders is strongly and appropriately favored by pretty much everyone but the offenders.  These are heinous criminal acts done to people who cannot defend themselves.  When you add the cruelty of threat and terror imposed by the pedophiles who know their victims, it becomes clear that every time we catch someone like this, they need to be punished to the full extent of the law.  As opposed to popular belief, though, punishment (usually with therapy) is pretty effective for those convicted.  The repeat conviction rate for child molesters is...<br /><br />To read the whole article, see <a href="http://www.way2hope.org/family-articles/why_offer_pedophiles_therapy.htm" target="_blank">Why Offer Pedophiles Therapy?</a>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 14:26:14 -0800</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=107</guid>
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		<title>Natural Remedies</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1612</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi everyone, <br /><br />Just wondering if anyone has had any luck with natural remedies? I was using Bach Flower Remedy, but it's a pretty quick helper at reducing immediate anxiety, but doesn't last very long?<br />]]></description>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 16:25:44 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1612</guid>
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		<title>Stop Panic Attacks Without Meds</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1609</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Most people think that to overcome panic and phobias, you are supposed<br />to 'face your fears' Well that's a load of crap. The reason you feel<br />panic is that a young part of you is terrified and doesn't trust the<br />older parts of you to look after it. Forcing that young part to do<br />something it clearly doesn't want to do will make the panic worse.<br /><br />Try this: Next time you panic, remove yourself from whatever it is<br />that's causing it. I panic on buses and trains, I don't force myself<br />to take trains, if I take a bus, I say to that part, "If you want to<br />get off, we will get off". When I go to the cinema/theatre, I pre-book<br />an aisle seat, I find out where the exit is and I say to myself "If<br />you want to leave, we'll leave" I have been doing this for several<br />years now and it really works. I can sit in waiting rooms now,<br />something I could never do before, because that young part of me knows<br />that if it wants to get up and go, we will, without hesitation. It has<br />learned to trust me. In turn, I can reason with it sometimes when I<br />really want to stay and I can be really kind to it and even ask it to<br />try and be OK (this mostly works, but I still have work to do on<br />this). I never take medication for panic, I think that this is really<br />disrespectful to the parts of you that are trying to communicate, you<br />just have to listen to them and eventually they will be less<br />terrified, learn to trust you and panic attacks do get much less. I<br />know that one day, I wont need to have them at all any more.<br /><br />Good Luck!<br />]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 10:29:06 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1609</guid>
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		<title>Depression And Fear Of Death</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1559</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I found this site in a Google search of "fear of death". it is controlling my life and i am at a loss as to how to win over this. i feel that as a christian i should not have this fear, at least not if my faith were strong enough. i have also survived with depression since '93. as far as the depression goes well i feel i have a handle on it with many tools that i have learned over the years but now this fear of death has become so all consuming that it is striping me of life. i am always attempting positive thinking and prayer but it just seems that i am in a constant battle with the thoughts that race though my head and am always having to fight this inner battle in my head that is exhausting. any advice would be so appreciated.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 09:59:42 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1559</guid>
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		<title>Forgiveness</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1493</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Our 22 year old son was killed in a car accident 7 months ago.  I got that horrible call at 3:19am from the police telling me that there had been an accident.  I could hear my son's girlfriend in the background, screaming "It's all my fault, I'm so sorry", the policeman told me that she was in the ambulance and that my son was dead, he didn't make it!  I remember throwing the phone on the bed and screaming.........I don't remember much after that.  I called his father, my ex husband later that morning to tell him, when I had found out that no one had called him.<br /><br />My son and I were very close.  We worked together, rode to work together every day for the past 15 months.  We shared a lot, especially his daughter........my precious granddaughter who is now 4.<br /><br />Now that I've explained the details and how it all began.............let me warn each and every parent, that if your adult child dies, the other parent can take over everything, all funeral arrangements, burial, headstone, Estate, etc........without telling you anything (according to Kansas Law, or should I say say "Small town Politics").  He didn't even tell me about the Estate, I heard it from someone else.  Therefore, he is entitled to any information on his Estate to be left to my son's daughter, which by the way he hasn't called to see her since our son died. His mother has, but she is just as controlling and hateful as her son.<br /><br />Not only did I lose my son, but I and his brothers were totally left out of everything.  The step-mother picked out a Priest, which my son is not Catholic and neither is she.  The Priest did not have one kind word to say about my son, said he wasn't a godly man, he didn't pray, go to church, WHICH IS NOT TRUE...........  WHY WASN'T I GIVEN A CHOICE OR A CHANCE TO BE A PART IN MY SON'S Burial (Step mother works for funeral home)?  They had everything planned and signed on the day he died.<br /><br />How can I ever find it in my heart to forgive them for what they have done?  It's hard enough losing a child, let alone, having his father do this to us.  My son is buried where he didn't want to be, which is also 3 hours from my home but where his dad lives.<br /><br />I feel as though I'm losing my own life now, but I have to go on for my other two son's and two granddaughters, and of course all of my family and friends.  It's one step at a time, one hour at a time, one day at a time, but yet.........I feel as though I can never get the closure that I need because of what he has done.  How can I ever forgive him for doing what can never be undone?<br /><br />Rest in Peace my son...............I love you!<br />Mom]]></description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 22:31:21 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1493</guid>
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		<title>I Want It ...</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1502</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hey All,<br /><br />I can't believe this... 			<br /><br />I just found a site on Anabolic Steroids<br /><br />Check it out:<br /><br />steroidstoday.com]]></description>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:57:01 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1502</guid>
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		<title>Great New Site !</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1552</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hey Everyone,<br /><br />Just found this crazy site on Steroid<br /><br />Has anyone seen it before?<br /><br />steroidstoday.com]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 05:39:19 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1552</guid>
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		<title>Lonely</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1517</link>
		<description><![CDATA[This is my first time on a forum. My mother has been battling with alcoholism and drug addiction ever since I was a young child. I am now 26 years old. My mother is going through yet another relapse. I know she is because she disappeared for a month now and the only contact I received from her is text messages.  I feel very alone and hurt right now because I am in my last month of pregnancy and my mother promised me she would be here to support me. I sent her over $400 to come and stay with me for a while and she took the money and never showed up. I live alone with my husband in a new city and I haven't yet had a chance to make any new friends. I really don't have any other family members I can rely on. I guess everything is getting to me. Before I felt stronger to be able to deal with this, but this time I can't stop crying!  IT may be because I am pregnant.  I blame my mother. How can she do this to me?  I have always been there for her to support her. Time after time she always disappoints me and I seem to forgive her and she does things like this over again.  I thought about just keeping her out of my life, but then I start to miss her and feel lonely for family support. I don't know what to do anymore. Is it best to keep her out my life? or is it worth working on our relationship. But then again is she willing to meet me half way. And the big question is she ready and willing to work on our relationship. I just don't want to get hurt like this anymore. Plus I have a baby to start thinking of.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 04:43:28 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1517</guid>
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