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	<title>Senior Interests And Issues</title>
	<description>The newest topics from the Senior Issues Forum.</description>
	<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:05:22 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>Addict Brother Embezzling</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1599</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I have a situation where there are strong indicators that my brother may be addicted to cocaine or some other strong drug. In the two years following my mom's death over $280K went missing from our parents' estate, and my brother (who has Power of Attorney) is refusing to follow the attorney advice and send bank statements to a CPA for oversight and review. A small bag of white powder was seen falling out of his backpack about a year ago when he was out playing volleyball on the beach, and he suffers with longstanding problems of sinusitis and insomnia, as well as looks strung out at time when I've seen him. He is now trying to develop a scenario where I  look like the suspicious one, and I've been told that this is a common ploy that is used, especially when a person is asking repeatedly "where are the missing funds?"  I am determined to make him accountable here. It's been over 6 months and the attorney and the CPA keep asking where the bank records are. I am ready to find legal help for this but am wondering if anyone has gone through this situation and the best way to handle it  so that the funds perhaps could still be recovered and he can get treatment.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 12:14:04 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1599</guid>
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		<title>Family Disagreements Affecting Elder Care</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=552</link>
		<description><![CDATA[My friend has Alzhiemer's Disease and has been put into a home for seniors with Alzhiemer's.  She is still very much aware of what is going on around her.  She was tricked by two of her daughters into going into the home.  She has another daughter who would take her into her home as long as she was able to care for her.  I want to know if there is anyone out there who can help us get my friend into her daughter's home.  The other two daughters were given power of attorney over their mother and never discussed with their other siblings what they were going to do with their mother.  There is very bad blood between the sisters.  Anyone have any advice to give?<br /><br />Tricia]]></description>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jul 2007 13:23:42 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=552</guid>
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		<title>Walk In Bathtub</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=698</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Can someone please help me with a referral. I am looking to purchase a new walk in bathtub. So far the best quotes I have received are from Premire Bath at $14,000.00 and Glamour Baths at $7,995.00 installed. I dont know who is the better manufacture or why such a price difference? Any suggestions or comments would be helpful.  <br /><br />Thank you,<br /><br />Mariposa]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 10:48:25 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=698</guid>
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		<title><![CDATA['codependent' Caretaker Mom]]></title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1548</link>
		<description><![CDATA[My mom is one of those people who has to have someone to take care of. My dad died in March of 08 after a battle with cancer, and as soon as she was done taking care of him, she went right back to caring for her mom, who was very narcissistic. Anyhoo, her mom died in August 08, and you'd think she'd finally be done taking care of people but NO. She latched onto grandma's nursing home roommate, and was off again. This time, she followed the girl from one place to the next, from August to February of this year, calling her, taking her calls, going to the hospital several times a week, etc., until the girl died. She often neglected her new grandson in the process. Along the way she contacted the girl's family, learned the girl really didn't have any that wanted her, except for a couple that had kindof taken her in. This couple was from out of state. She let these people live in her home fr 3 weeks while they waited for the girl to pass. <br />I was about ready to pull out my hair when I found out she was letting them live with her. The entire time, she blew off her regular baby sitting time with my nephew, making the other grandma take off work just to do so. After the girl passed, I figured all would go back to normal. NO. TUrns out the couple she was housing had "problems" and needed help (money) to buy their prescriptions. Turns out they really enjoyed staying in her home, as they were not as wealthy (they live off the dole). <br />She told them about a yard sale she was planning for this weekend many months ago, and of course, they came to "help" in spite of her telling them she'd rather they did not. This time, their 16-year-old son is with them, in her computer room/financial papers room. These people are shady, they do not work, and at age 73 she has no business feeding, housing, cleaning up after,etc. these moochers. They've already filled their brand new SUV with a ton of yard sale stuff. They are staying until the sale ends tomorrow. <br />My brother and I tried to get her alone last night to talk to her, but it didn't work. We are getting the police to run the plate on their SUV. I can check on one of her financial accounts because my name's also onit, but othe rthan that, we all are powerless to know whether she's given them a ton of money (we know she's given them some, but don't know how much). <br />We are planning to get together as a family and confront her about all this after they leave. I want to know if there is anything you can say to a codependent person to help them realize their problem. She believes these people are just great saints. After hanging out with them all day today, all I can say is, they are leeches.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 15:38:53 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1548</guid>
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		<title>This Is Awesome...</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1538</link>
		<description><![CDATA[This is awesome...<br /><br />I just found a new site on Anabolic Steroids  <br /><br />This looks like a really interesting site<br /><br />I already signed up, has anyone else?<br /><br />steroidstoday.com]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 00:50:58 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1538</guid>
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		<title>You Need An Advice Or Counciling To Continue Life?</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1514</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Are you in a relationship wondering why you’re so unhappy most of the time? Have you done everything you can think of to make this failing relationship work?<br /><br />So many of us continue to stay, when deep down in our hearts we know we should leave. Sound familiar?<br /><br />Finally, after much agonizing, crying, anger, and depression, after trying everything she knew of to save her relationship; Kathy made the difficult decision to walk away from an 8 year relationship.<br /><br />She believed that she wasn’t going to be able to survive the endless grief and heartache she was experiencing. Every day she felt like the world was crashing in on her. She was dealing with universal feelings that we all have when facing “the end” of our life with someone.<br /><br />The pain and misery, the loneliness and disappointment seemed to be more than she could bear. Reading this book enabled her to begin the process of letting go of her sadness and set her on a journey of self discovery. <br /><br />visit   <!--coloro:#0000FF--><span style="color:#0000FF"><!--/coloro--><u><b>www.whystay.com</b></u> <!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc-->          or           <!--coloro:#0000FF--><span style="color:#0000FF"><!--/coloro--><u><b>www.susanrusso.com</b></u><!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc-->]]></description>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 22:32:41 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1514</guid>
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		<title>A Good Gift Idea For Grandparents</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1312</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hello Everyone,<br /><br />I just found a video at YouTube its interesting. I think it is a good gift to grandparents. Just check out the website- bigscreenlive.com ..its interesting....<br /><br />]]></description>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 00:23:50 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1312</guid>
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		<title>Telephone Off The Hook</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1444</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Does anyone have a solution for notification if a phone is off the hook? My mom lives alone and is in generally good health, but a little hard of hearing. Occasionally, she'll forget to hit end on her cordless phone and, because of her hearing issue, doesn't realize the phone is "off the hook." As a result, I get calls at all hours of the day/night from concerned parties and have to drive to her home to check in. I don't mind, but she gets terribly embarrassed by her mistake. Anyone have a suggestion? Is there a visual alert system we can install or a phone that comes equipped with one? Thanks.  ]]></description>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2009 11:49:17 -0700</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1444</guid>
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		<title><![CDATA[Alzheimer's Clinical Study]]></title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1384</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi to all members of the Senior Issues discussion forum. You may be interested in the ICARA/Bapineuzumab (Bapi) study if you or someone you know has been diagnosed with probable Alzheimer's disease. <br /><br />The ICARA (Bapi) study is currently enrolling patients in a clinical study evaluating the safety and effectiveness of an investigational drug aimed at slowing down the progression of Alzheimer's.  All study-related procedures and medication will be provided at no cost.  During the study, each participant will be monitored by a medical team, including a nurse or study coordinator, and a physician.  Positive results from the ICARA (Bapi) study could lead to a change in doctors' approach to the treatment of Alzheimer's disease and could possibly result in Bapi being made available to a broader range of Alzheimer's patients.<br /><br />To find out if you or a loved one are eligible, visit www.ICARAstudy.com or call 1-888-770-MEMORY.<br />]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 16:20:26 -0800</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=1384</guid>
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		<title>Going Nuts In N.y.</title>
		<link>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=940</link>
		<description><![CDATA[My story goes off in so many directions but i'll try to condense it as much as possible. Two years ago my parents had to go in a nursing home (no other choice) i worked with a elder care lawyer to protect their home etc. with a living trust. when they entered the nursing home i had forced upond me to now take care of two homes (mine and theirs) two set of taxes, fuel, maintenance Etc which i could not afford, so i decided to sell my home and move into their home as i could not sell their home. six months after they were in the nursing home, reality set in with my father that he will never go back home, he became very bitter towards this and decided to take it out on me (only child) The nursing home has been enabeling him in his coquest to get back into the house by bring him here to the house, i will not let him in the house cause his words to me was " i would rather die in my house than live in that horrible nursing home" for this reason i don't let him in. Now the nursing home is helping him with the same lawyer that drew up the living trust to revoke it, they are feeding him information that will lead to disaster, if he revokes the living trust and evicts me from the house then he looses his medicaid and will just lose the house back to the nursing home, which is why i think the nursing home is enabeling him so much. his social worker at the home is behind this crazy behavior by telling him things like get rid of the house so you don't have to worry about it Etc....Etc....The few lawyers i spoke with all say my dad his within his legal rights to do this but the moral issues are what i'am fighting for, my parents are in their upper 80s and don't understand how things are done today. i haven't spoke to them in over a year as the nursing home has my father developed so much hate for me that talking to him is not an option. Plus if i have to move from his house it will ruin me money wise........any suggestions would be helpfull]]></description>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 14:26:37 -0800</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.way2hope.org/family-forums/index.php?showtopic=940</guid>
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